Beginner Help please

["Bruce Boulineau" <fotopro @ tryi . com>]

I am new to majordomo. My web host <addr.com> has started an account 
for me to administer. I have ordered the book "Managing Mailing Lists"
but it will take a few days to get here. It seems that some of the 
messages will bounce to me at the owners address. The bounce I am 
trying to deal with is for taboo words in the body of the message.
How do i approve these messages for posting anyway?
Is there a way to allow these words so there will be fewer bounces?

Thanks for your help